Practice Gives Confidence

As Paladin writes... Our Lady joined us for another delightful evening last nite.Dinner.. conversation.. and yes.. some practice. I did indeed give her the title of MIT.. Mistress In Training... and Paladin... was the practice pet. She spoke about the past weekend with her husband's female slave in attendance and some of the things that occurred. The slave assists our Lady in a gardening project.. and afterwards, felt she was too 'self directed'... and it was too much like 'hanging out with friends'...

So.. I did indeed give her a few tips. I showed her Paladin's kneeling sign, which of course, she has seen numerable times, since she began going to visit him with Me occasionally since last fall. And they took their Reiki Level 2 training together as well.

Anyways....

So.. I suggested that the sign works well because she can drop the slave to her knees from across the yard if need be... and Paladin agreed that would quite enjoyable to a slave and help one feel owned and submissive.
I had m'Lady practice 'dropping' Paladin again.. this means standing to the side or behind him with one's hand tugging on the slaves hair.. heavy or light pressure, Paladin immediately drops to his knees. I had her do this again, several times so that she got the true feel for it.

The night continued with her 'Commanding' him.. (with a few prompts from Me). She (like I was before Paladin) is very unsure about 'telling' someone what she wants or needs. Neither of us are the sort of women that 'boss' other's around.. and I told her you can still be polite to your slave.. I do always thank him. and much of the time I do say please..even though he knows its non-negotiable. As I said yesterday to some one.. and I meant it.. Manners are the foundation of Civilization. Just because Paladin has given himself into My service.. is no reason for Me to treat him in a way I different from anyone. The fact that he is My most cherished possession.. well.. makes My treatment of him all that more important. And.. again. I am very very proud of him. As I told m'Lady.. he has trained Me perhaps more then I have trained him. In many ways and things. And I keep learning from him as well.

As the evening progressed, she practiced.. and I enforced a bit. This was the first time that she had ever Commanded him herself.. and I think not the last time either. And he was his usual charming, quick, courteous and affectionate self. He has come a very long way.. and it's gratifying that she can feel him getting more and more comfortable with her.

I don't think she'd ever had a man kiss her feet before, and I told her he would stay there until she brought him up. (smile) he was.. very.. beautiful while he was doing it. and she was.. tickled.. and then finally stopped him.

All in all it was a wonderful evening.. and we'll look forward to more 'training' time with her. I gave her a variety of suggestions and Paladin also told her what works for him as a submissive that I do to reinforce that.

Paladin indeed mentions his busy schedule. So tomorrow will be our last known time together for perhaps a couple of weeks. That sounds..... daunting. But.. we will have txt and phones.. and we'll see how his time and work goes. We shall practice again tomorrow nite our methods for dealing with it.

On that note..
best wishes to all..
and to all..
a good nite.. or morning.. depending on where you are in the world.

Mystress