Sunday, February 10, 2008

The drops.

Tonight i learned from my Mystress what Dom Drop was. I had heard and read about sub drop. Its the feeling a sub feels after an intense session with his or her Master/Mistress and when they are apart...the sub feels down about not experiencing this intense connection anymore. Its temporary and often recedes when they are reunited but for the time apart...they feeling can be quite sad.

Well i had not read about it applying to the dom in the relationship but in hindsight why not...for i am sure him/her feels the intensity just as much and why can't they feel the down too. My Mystress said she was experiencing it some after our last very very very intense sessions and i was not aware of it. I apologize to my Mystress for not being aware of it and that she was experiencing it.

We had a very good chat about it and agreed that Mystress would be quite blunt about it if she was feeling the slightest bit of drop and in turn i would shower Mystress with more attention to lesson the affects....Again this is just goes to show that through our communication we can sort out anything and come to an arrangement that makes us both very happy.

Smiling knowing my Mystress is much happier after our chat....

Paladin

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