Benevolent Dictatorship and a bit of rambling

Another lovely nite..
After a nice long chat last nite, some of it prompted by some of the blogs that I read we came to a consensus of what sort of ruling party we have in control in our relationship. We had once said something about a parliamentary (I think pet was partial to that because his country has one) and discussed the 'not a fascist state' business (which we aren't either). We are certainly not a democracy.

When talking with Master while at the doctors office yesterday, I was discussing all this with Him and ran the idea of the 'Benevolent Dictatorship' by Him and He laughed quite a bit and thought that was the same sort of relationship that we have... which is true. And.. the same sort that Paladin and I have now agreed that we have as well. Although I am much tamer then Master when He is feeling well. But I do like to share things with pet.. keeping with My tradition of carrying on things from My own submissive experiences with him. Which he quite likes the idea of by the way. Although, it tis rather hard to complain about something your Mystress is doing to you when you know your own Mystress has gone through the same thing isn't it? (slightly wicked grin) and I have been through some interesting things as a pleasure slave Myself. (even more wicked grin). So I certainly know both sides of the coin.

My lucky draw is that I do also have Master's brain to pick in regards to mindsets and things to do with Paladin. Master is very different in that some of the submissive things that I've talked about having pet do He has said (for instance the nose against the wall with the quarter bit, sans painful knees) that He'd be spending the whole time thinking about shoving someones arm down someones throat as soon as He could move. Hmmmm.. now that's certainly NOT a submissive thought. So Master is truly as Dommy in attitude as can be. Course, He is also from one of the more quarrelsome of the Scotts clans as well. In fact My clan and His had quite a row for over 700 years over a tiny town between our two Scottish family. You gotta admit, that's a long darn time to have a disagreement. We did manage to end it recently however. Interesting caveat is that it had to do with the Chiefs of our two clans being in a German prisoner of war camp together. They bonded.. and later entrusted their sons to resolve the argument. So we can be officially friends now without being disowned by our clans.

Anyways back to the current discussion... the point being how different Master is from pet. Yet, they both respect each other, send each other well wishes and get along well.

As a bit of an update...Master is still very ill and moving quite slowly and His libido seems to have disappeared for the time being. Although He did just put Me back on a texting schedule for the first time in about 5 months. So now pet and I are on equal footing. Its an interesting thing when You are with You sub and Your phone beeps a reminded to send You Master His goodnight text. (smile)

And now.. for something completely different..
Something new I had done to pet the other nite, was to give him a 'marking'. Well...it wasn't on My mind to start with. But picture this...

Your a Mystress and your very sexy male slave is busy fixing your diner, this nite clad only in a black dress work shirt and of course his restraints. As Your admiring those lovely rugby thighs (and if you've ever looked at a rugby player, you'll know what I mean) you happen to notice he has a rather large black sharpie sitting on his counter there. Hmmmmmm.. the mind starts to whirl..... let's see.. what have I read out there that Dom/mes do with these???

With a grin, I pick up the sharpie and get pet's attention. "What do you think I could do with this pet?" He turns looks at it.. and makes a comment about 'expanding horizon's'.... Hmmmm.. interesting.. now I hadn't thought of that use.. but as I look at the rounded tip.. yes... I can see how he would think that.. but no.. that's not what I have in mind.

"Come here pet.. turn around and bend over"
He does this quickly and obediently...
I lift up the tale of his workshirt...
rub his cheeks a bit and survey the landscape..
dammed lovely ass this man has.. verrry nice..
I take the marker.. and on his lower left butt cheek..
I drew a heart.. and wrote "Myne" inside of it. (smile) personally, I think it looked quite fetching! I liked watching him finishing cooking dinner so decorated and throughout the rest of the evening.

It was almost gone on Thur nite, and I forgot to draw another one, so I have instructed pet do do one on himself tonight and send Me a pic of it. And tomorrow morning after his shower too. Contrary to what I thought, a sharpie mark seems to disappear fairly quickly.. but that's okay, let's Me change the 'slogan' or art as it were. I find I like the idea of pet having a mark of some kind in tribute to Me on his person. Verry erotic thought.

As for last nite, we did get to have our lovely nite listening to the rain. i arrive late after taking Master to the doctors.. and driving carefully in the rain. But we had a nice dinner, watched survivor and generally enjoyed ourselves.

We had some music on while we took our bath, but after we moved to the bedroom, the rain's began, so I had pet turn off the music so we could just listen to the rain.. it was wonderful. I did give pet some time blindfolded and bound face down while I used several of our impliments (crop, soft and more whippy flogger and My hand) on his backside for a while. I had found a hand vibrator at the dollar store earlier in the day, and it only works if you are pressing it down. So I put that under pet's pelvis and told him to keep contact with it while I was spanking/flogging him. He did very well and only let it up once. A very nice little trick to add to the mix I think. pet did quite a bit of wiggling around, and he said it was not from pain. I was not very harsh with him as I want to work him up to this. We did talk about the concept of 'enduring' for one's Dom/me. When you take the pain for them. While I am not a sadist by any means... I am curious to see what pet finds arousing along these lines. He was certainly wiggling around during this and he said it was not from hurting.. (smile) He was very good at returning the pleasure with it came to be My turn.

Sometime during the nite when the rain was pounding down, I woke to pet touching Me. He was curled behind Me.. which of course led to My arching back against him..... one thing of course led to another. Neither of us knows what time it was.. it was dark and stormy.. and passionate.. and we both fell asleep again afterwards. I know I awoke sometime around 3am.. so it was before that. This morning, I awoke at 6:15, but decided to not wake pet until just a few minutes before the alarm went off so that I could have him hold Me before we got up and took our showers and had breakfast and coffee. I loved that one could see pet's sword necklace with the shirt that he was wearing today.. made Me smile several times over breakfast. I wonder if he knew that's what I was smiling at?

As a last note, I am going to add some of the blogs that I read here over the next few days. pet is generally too busy to meander around the net much, but I've been having a grand time discovering a fascinating variety of blogs out there, and some of them have become real favorite. So it seems a nice idea to add some of them here.

As always, best to all,
and to all,
a good nite...
Mystress