Busy Times

We all know that sometimes in life are busier then others.
For Me and pet.. this is one of those times. He is working
particularly hard right now with much work stress,
so I have relived him of his blog posting duties for the time being.
He still does his other duties, and sends Me an email,
but part of being a Mystress,
is trying to be aware of what is too much.

Sometimes, I can lose track of that..
I try not to however, but as a fairly simple human
who never seems to have quite enough time to do all She wants
I have to be careful of pet's time and to not overburden him.

In the limited time we have,
the time we spend with each other
and communicating with each other
is the most important aspect
of our relationship.
Training and deepening that training
and figuring out together
what makes us both happiest
is what's most important to us.

We are the center of our circle.
We let a few others near it..
and occasionally observe it,
and once in a while, indulge with us.
But for the most part..
we prefer to have our time to ourselves
as there is little enough of that
to go around to satisfy either one of us.

We have a project that we are working on
that has a very spiritual focus to it,
and that keeps us in a very centered state of mind.
This is the working our way through exercises of the
101 Tantric Nights book.

We find that this is one of our highest priorities
and that we are both learning alot from it
and that it most closely is aligned with what we
seek to share with each other.
And.. tis something that can only be
done as a couple.

So.. this is our combined goal
for the time being, as we work our
way through it.
Practice makes purrrfect as they say.

I will have pet post about it
when he has time and the time is right.

For now.. that is where we are.
We have done #1,
and Thur nite (as long as he doesn't have to
work tooo late) we'll do #2.
This is a book My own Knight gave to My pet
for us to do together.
He expects us to be well bound to each other
and so, we follow his expectations
and do so.
Doing the exercises in this book
are very inclined to do so.

Wishing best to all out there,
Mystress