Evening All.
Making preparations for a trip and a question suddenly popped in my mind. How do others deal with their times apart. I know i have read a few comments on our blog about others that at times have been apart from their relationships...and it didn't dawn on me then...but it has today...How do others deal with their times apart?
Do you make more calls? Chat more online? Let the time pass? Keep ones self busy and not think too much on it to avoid the discomfort?
If our guests would be so kind as to share their thoughts it would be much much appreciated. Its always comforting to hear from others than share similar experiences so that I and my Mystress can learn from our guests.
Awaiting some responses....
Paladin
The Future is Unknown
3 hours ago
7 comments:
I have had some experience with this recently actually. I find the times apart almost unbearable as I'm sure they feel too about me, but we strive to close the gap with phone calls, texts, maintaining at least one daily routine etc. When my boy was gone for two weeks he was completely and utterly without communication ability. It was awful. But I made do by writing of him and luckily my girl was around during that time as well and she was an immense support. When she was gone, we had the ability to at least talk on phone and text and while missing her was hard, it was not as crushing as not having ANY contact when previously contact was had everyday.
I guess in the end, you do what you can to make do. Perhaps it's the struggle of being apart where the saying "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" came from.
Either way, phone, text, images, are not the same as having the person at your side no matter the environment...
You will be missed while gone paladin, I do so enjoy your posts. Be safe, Be well, and return to us all. We miss you too :)
DM
As my Mistress has put above We have have just gone through this ourselves. And it was hard for me not being at Mistress's side in the environment we were used to and not being at her side there We filled the loss of that somewhat by phoning and texting everyday, keeping up our routines as we could.
I found my bond with Mistress grew, as we used these other means more. And for that I am truely glad. So whereas the distance was hard in the end it was a positive in an unexpected way. :)
I wish you well in your trip Paladin, and that you find the strength to deal with the seperation. I feel for that truely having just been there.
little girl
Thank you muse for sharing your thoughts. Mystress and i do do the same activities and it is very comforting indeed. Some contact is better than none for sure.
Welcome chyldeofthenorns to the blog. Thank you for your words too and it must of been an extreme pleasure for you to comnfort your mistress during her time of seperation.
Hello all,
Paladin has done a great job of staying in contact and reaching out while on this trip back east. He is as ever diligent in his texts and pics and his postings. I had given him grace for Sun since he spent the long whole of it traveling.
He has called Me when he's had the chance.. and because his lovely British sounding accent is such a part of him, it makes him feel closer and more comforting to hear him speak to Me.
I want to say that I am very very proud of him for being on this trip with the upper echelon of his company. He is a rising star in the business world is My pet.. and AAA perfection personality. Driven but not (too) crazy only somewhat anal (to quote him). So this is quite an important business trip, and I am glad he is getting all this time with these fellas.
WAY TO GO PET!!!
(grins)
Mystress
It warmed my heart a lot paladin to be there for her. To be her strength when she needed it was very important to her, which made me very happy.The most important thing for me is to be what she needs me to be.
little girl
We can only be who we are for our dominatants...and it is in this way we make them happy...so be who we are and keep making them all happy.
Paladin
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