Time is short

Morning all...and a very early morning to Mystress. Time is scarce for me this week so i've woken up early to post my blog.

Thank you Mystress for the well wishes and wishing me a safe trip. Took the whole day but finally arrived. My schedule looks rather hectic but as always Mystrss..i promise to find time for my dear Mystress.

Gobbling down some bfast before heading to a morning meeting. Hope to chit chat some today and I have started my countdown to a wonderful reunion Sat...mmm lovely i thoughts indeed.

A busy Paladin

Question for our guests

Evening All.

Making preparations for a trip and a question suddenly popped in my mind. How do others deal with their times apart. I know i have read a few comments on our blog about others that at times have been apart from their relationships...and it didn't dawn on me then...but it has today...How do others deal with their times apart?

Do you make more calls? Chat more online? Let the time pass? Keep ones self busy and not think too much on it to avoid the discomfort?

If our guests would be so kind as to share their thoughts it would be much much appreciated. Its always comforting to hear from others than share similar experiences so that I and my Mystress can learn from our guests.

Awaiting some responses....

Paladin

Happiness Dear Mystress

My Mystress has a tendency, which happens rarely these days, to sometimes dwell on something unpleasant. Like my trip next week. Mystress dwelled some on the time apart and how long it was to our next visit. Well i can totally agree with Mystress, a week apart is unpleasant and like Mystress i miss our visits and look forward to them very much.

But i know that there will be a wonderful reunion...a time that WILL always happen and as always promises to be wonderful. My mind thinks on those that had something special..and perhaps now don't have it anymore...now that would be something to dwell on...but for us dear Mystress we do not have that fear. Our bond is so strong and special and as i said before Mystress...has many many years in it.

So yes Mystress..the time apart is not nice...but the alternatives are worse. Like Mystress posted...we will stay in contact and text and IM...and even some extra exhanges to pass the time...and before we know it next weekend wil be here and we will enjoy our wonderful reunion.

So i give my Mystress much much credit for how far she has come..and how rarely Mystress does dwell on things....like i said last night..its part of you...just like some of my more anal characteristics...so we accept it and move on...both improving on the characteristics...growing with each other...improving each other and making each other much stronger.

With so much admiration of my Mystress...in amazement....

Paladin

To Own Pets...

And to be responsible for them, is to Me a big responsibility. And not one I take lightly at all.
I am very lucky to have two such pets.

One of course is My amazing Paladin... and tonight I'll be spending a last night with him before a busy weekend for him, and then as he says, a trip out of town for the week. I have gotten quite used to My lovely 'spa' time with him. I know that as he says, we will stay connected while he is gone on his trip. Thank goodness for cell phones and text messages as well as MMS messages. Pet will have to send Me all of his regular pics plus a few extras to hold Me over till he gets back.
As always, I expect our reunion to be quite pleasurable.

I will also have kajira robert to keep Me company when Paladin is away.. and while cyber isn't near the same thing as reality.. his mostly quick obedience (even when its sprinkled with his quick wit) is amusing. We do have a rather good time flying around in Second Life and visiting new spots. And I like to tease him about when he finally does come to our town for a vist.. all of the things he'll have to look forward to. (wicked grin)

It has been going on 5 years now since I 'collared' kajira robert online... and a year for Paladin in real life. I have learned alot in that time.. but I have truly come into My own in the year since Paladin. He has taught Me who I am to Myself.. and what I want and desire. Like in My last post.. I speak of how what I want and what others say we are supposed to be are often two different things. I am blessed in that My two subs understand and support My way of being.
They are both strong willed men who choose to submit to Me. And I am always grateful to them for that.

I told Paladin the other night, that its not always easy though. There are still often things I want that I know he is uncomfortable with. And so, how much do I stretch him? Sometimes I will grant him grace on something...and then.. wish I hadn't. I do get some very wicked ideas.. and more often then not, when I ask him how such a thing might make him feel, his answer is 'very submissive Mystress." Which is exactly the answer that I do want. I want to stretch him some.. and make him uncomfortable some too. And sometimes.. I want him to do something that will please Me unasked... something he knows I'll like... just to surprise and please Me.
He's often a shy pet... and that can lead to some whimsy on My part as far as having him do something out of his box that I know he doesn't want to do. And sometimes...no matter how much I want him too.. its not 'proper'. I don't care... but he does. And its those times I have to realize how much he already does for Me... how far he has come in this almost year of time.
To look at where we are now, and where we started... and no matter what I want..
Like any responsible pet owner... I have to be that.. responsible to him..and take care of him, and look after him.

But.... I can still hope he'll have th courage.. and the adventurous heart to do something
totally outside his box on a whim for Me.

I'll still pet him and love him, even if he doesn't...
but as Amazing Grace said...

"but wouldn't it be nice...."

Best to all,
Mystress

Excitement

MMm close to seeing my Mystress once again...the excitement is bubbling up. I will be out of town next week so i will soak up as much of my Mystress tomorrow to get me throught he week to come.

Mystress and I will work our magic and as always figure out a way to keep our bond strong and ever so special..

Thank you Mystress for being my Mystress

Paladin

My Sweet Mystress

Evening all ... I hope that everyone is having wonderful times in their lives. I know i am and am happy happy as of late. Its amazing that being my Mystress pet is such a happy experience. I am sure others who share my position can be as grateful and happy.

And gratitude i have in abundance...like tonight...my Mystress and have spoken since i got home with break for dinner...and my Mystress has deemed i have had enough computer time for tonight so she ordered me off the computer to veg. So here i am obeying my Mystress's order...and going to go veg on the couch for some...but before i can i've got to do my post for the evenig...happily and with much ethusiasm.

So i go to veg and count the less than 24 hours till i see my dear Mystress...mmmm. Mystress will be taking a hot shower to relax in a few .. so i will let my mind wander around that beautiful thought.

Paladin

New Protocols

Evening All

Been a long day of chores and a little relaxation but as a Sunday goes it was pretty decent. Mystress had a good afternoon with our Lady. Its wonderful when my Lady's are together for they do enjoy their compay immensly. Mystress made a comment that they should do it more and i couldn't agree more. Its always good to get out and about with friends.

Tonight Mystress instituted some new protocols. The protocol is that i shall have to now turn on my webcam and give my Mystress my feality sign whenever we are apart and are in communication. For my Mystress this is an extension of my fealty to my Mytress...to show my commitment to my MYstress. As always it makes me very happy to adopt a protocol for my Mystress. I know they give my Mystress immense hapiness and i will always try to make my Mystress bery happy.

Tomorrow will come and go quickly and i know that the time will pass fast so that Mystress and i get to see oeach other again...


Happy Thoughts

Paladin