Good evening to all our wonderful friends.
Thank you to my dear sweet Mystress for doing such a wonderful job recounting the visit and family time. The week was a long one yet a very important one for us all. Why? Because it served as an important step in or ever evolving relationship.
It was definitely a challenging visit because we had to slowly introduce foreign concepts to a family where everything we have experienced was and still is a totally foreign concept. Like Mystress said, do we ever tell our parents all the details of what we truly get up to? I feel a large portion of us dont :) So the process of getting them a climated to us began. The hardest part of it all was not being able to be my sub self with my dear Mystress. We had moments we could indulge but for the most part, we bottled our desires so that a proper introduction could be made. By the end of the visit, i think we have planted a good seed of change in most of the family and it shall not be long before we can be our true selfs and do what we do, albeit it sans the crops and x-crosses :) Who really wants there mom ever finding those special toys :)
One thing i do want to ask all our readers has been on my mind of late and perhaps i can gain some knowledge from all you guys. To those of you all that were once in a part time relationship for lack of a better term, but who now are full time....what sort of progressions did you all go through? Did anything change? Good or bad? Did part time routines continue or did they morph into something else?
I ask because since we are now full time, i have noticed some things have changed. Time for one slips by enjoyably. I often find myself forgetting things i wouldnt, like having my collar on in time. Am i a bad sub for this? Does my blindness to time being with Mystress warrant this behavior? Another would be my blog duties. We did this blog to be more in touch with one another, but since we together now all the time, my preference is to always share my thoughts with Mystress in person.
I know these progression are likely due to my endless time with Mystress...but i feel i need to be more aware of our routines so that i can best keep them up. I really do care to hear about other progressions from our readers so that i may reflect on them and see if they can be found in our wonderful time together.
Waiting for enlightenment
Paladin.
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Paladin, i was in a 2 year relationship with my former Mistress we are good friend this day. with us we started friends and i think when we first met after 1 week ok actually after huicane Ike hit our area we decided to jump in together that day i truly embarrassed. she taught me allot over the 2 years we were together but you can only go so far but for you you went to part to full time congrats that's a lot better then what i did. you and your Mystress are made for each other i see that in my eyes while watching you two.. Welcome to Texas and enjoy life to the fullest. j
Hello Mystress and brother. Sounds like things went really well to me. Its wonderful to see how things have evolved and i hope to not see the blog dimenish. You two have had a whirl wind year of change and ajustment and its only May. :) Seems to me the two of Y/you fit like a glove. Love you both. Robert
Paladin...
Gosh where to begin to describe all the changes Omega and mouse have been through?! The one thing we've found there are times we're very protocol oriented, then there are times we're not. It ebbs and flows...
Like many of our rules were just eliminated or condensed into just a few and we had volumes of them!
Like you mentioned wearing the collar...mouse is willing to bet before you lived together it was a tangible connection to your submission. Now your submission is always there...yanno? So you gradually do away with the things you don't need (which are just the trappings anyway or shiny things) and hold on tight to what is (each other).
Now this is the way it is with Omega and mouse anyway...and it could be totally different for you and your Mysteess...
But one thing is totally fur sure, no one wants their mom or MIL for that matter to find the toys...or the kids...or even the dog, because yanno they'll grab those Ben Wa balls and want you to throw them. Or even worse someone else ;-)
Ya...
Hugs you both,
mouse
Thank you all for the wonderful comments. I couldnt be happier being full time. Your thought about ones collar representing submission when apart but now when together, the submission is always there, i find rather interesting. I can see that from the perspective that what we did before to train our submission, can be easily replaced with full time protocols that have their own purpose.
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