Xmas times past and New years coming

Good evening all out lovely guests and friends. We hope you all had wonderful christmas times with family and friends.

What a lovely time of the year to spend with those you care for, be it christmas or new years. its a wonderful time to reflect on all our relationships and to count our blessings for having them. Some blessings are counted more than others, like my dear sweet Mystress. Every day i count my lucky stars and thank Mystress for being myne.

Unfortunately my dear Mystress hurt her back this past Thursday reaching down to adjust the blinds, and a terrible injury indeed. Mystress immediately went stiff and could only move to collapse on the couch and texted me. Luckily i was omw home to prepare for a trip so i diverted to Mystress. I had to pull the blind on the window as my key wouldn't open one of the locks and climb through to find my Mystress in pain on the couch. I felt so bad and could only do my best to get her into bed and as comfy as the pain would allow. Luckily some medication was near and available later in the evening to blunt the pain and keep it bareable. I felt so bad to leave Mystress with her company but prior engagements with family had to be kept.

We kept in touch all weekend getting updates and sharing our times with each other. It was lovely to be in touch with Mystress yet unpleasant to know she was in pain. Atleast Mystress could spend xmas tucked up on the recliner with family so that was good.

On Sunday i swung by to help Mystress adjust her bed to get more comfy and to grab some dinner for her. The pain had subsided to the point where movement was no possible yet with much pain and discomfort. Mystress would need to spend a few more days in bed much to her disgust. Mystress doesnt do good holed up in one place for too long because she likes to keep busy. Well all thats possible is to relax and let the back heal and watch movies. Not the best way to spend her vacation yet it must be done.

We hope her back is better enough for New Years and will make plans accordingly. The most important thing is you rest dear Mystress, recover and mend your back, even if its terribly unpleasant to be apart. We shall be back in the swing of things much sooner than you think if you can bare the boredom for a few days more. Its much better than the alternative and a re-inhury dont you guys all think?

So please take care my dear Mystress and allow yourself to rest and mend.

With much love

Paladin

Cold Travels

Good evening all.

We hope everyone is snuggled up nice and cozy on these cold weekend days. Its definitely been a very wet and cold weekend which luckly i have avoided by being inside all weekend.

My Mystress in the other hand has been travelling and now finds her lovely self in an even colder and whiter area. Mystress having informed me its started snowing a little while ago and all i could think of was BRRRRR after i though about my Mystress traveling. Please please drive very safe dear Mystress. Take extra days to get home if you must but whatever you do please take it careful and safely.

Other than my nagging to drive safe, i have urged my Mystress to enjoy it all from the road trip to the company to the times ahead this trip promises. Its a wonderful reason for the trip and again , KUDOS to my sweet Mystress for being so thoughtful and caring to do all she has done so far and for all she plans to do in the future.

With much love, and care for Mystress

Paladin

XMas Times

Good evening All.

The Xmas times have started and so have our wonderful traditions. This weekend Mystress and i took part in our yearly xmas tradition of getting all the decorations setup and the tree made up. We do this each year to of course spend time together but to also promote a wonderful xmas environment for all. So we spent the day arranging decorations and selecting themes for the xmas tree and generally having a wonderful day. By the afternoon all was setup and the lovely cozy xmas environment was set. Very cozy and a lovely place to have the family xmas this year. Mystress ounds like she is going to have many more family over this year which is a lovely thing indeed. I am sure she will be stressed getting it all ready but the rewards will be oh so wonderful so please enjoy it.

After the tree we played some kinect on Mystress new super duper big ass tv. Wow it really is a wonderful tv and even bigger than mine. Do enjoy the new tv Mystress, now regular tv is ruined for you :)

This week is the week before Mystress delayed trip north so the excitement for Mystress is still there and she is very excited to go. The trip is even better now however as more people are going so it is officialy a group trip and re-union :) Please drive safe Mystress but enjoy it all. Take your time for you have the whole weekend to get back. Hugs and be safe.

Love Paladin.

Wonderful Mystress

Good evening all

Almost the end of the year yet its still a wonderful part of the year. Holidays and celebrations and happy times for all and whats more important than spending times with all those we love. Mystress and i have made some plans for pre-xmas activities and tree building which should be a lovely time indeed.

My wonderful Mystress goes up north this week to travel down with family. Such a wonderful thing my Mystress does. Travelling all the way north to turn around and drive all teh way home. It will be a wonderful bonsing time and i will send reiki the entire time for a safe trip home. Kudos to you Mystress for doing what your doing.

Today was a day of flapping like a chicken on xbox. Hours go by before you realize on the new Kinect :) It sure makes for a good nights sleep :) Time to shower...damn kinect makes one sweaty to :) and prepare for yet another work week. I will think of my lovely Mystress in the shower indeed :)

Paladin

In Motion

Good evening to all our wonderful friends and guests. Thanksgiving has past and now we march on to Christmas. Can you believe its already xmas time, wow. Soon the new year with be here...wow. Time really flys when your having fun :)

Mystress and i decided to get early xmas gifts and each own the new Kinect. COOL is all i can really say. I highly suggest everyone give it a demo at a store like best buy. It really really is fun. Its alot more precise than the Wii i feel and you dont feel like a flailing chicken, high on wacky weed try to thread a needle in frustration. The camera does take random pictures like a roller coaster which umm, do reveal some awkard poses indeed. We quickly turned those off :) We are also using them to motivate each other to follow the fitness programs. They are kicking our butts but we will motivate each other and keep each other moving on int he workouts. A definite side effect of the new toys is you get so wrapped up in the experience, you end up working out for hours. One bonus Mystress immediately found was the live voice/cam chat :) She calls it her cyber supervision :)

Now i go to collapse on the couch after a flapping like a chicken and running like a madman, tired and well exercised.....happy to have my dear Mystress.

Paladin

Moving Forward...

Hello dear readers...

Its been a while since I have posted. Back in October.. so many things were swirling. and it was not a time to put feelings into words. Paladin is good for marching on while I ponder and opine for what I do, and don't want to say. I learned a few years back the mistake of writing too soon and putting words too raw into a permanent form. So I have held off writing, till the pain has subsided some. No no no.. none of this is in regards to Paladin.. but other things that he has lent his wisdom and support to. He is ever the sturdy rock that allows Me the freedom to experience things, knowing he is always waiting, firm and strong. And whatever winds may blow.. I do know, as he says, our ship can ride any wave and survive any storm.

I don't like burning bridges. and I prefer Paladin's wording in that I havn't actually burned any. I am just choosing not to cross them anymore. Time does heal.. it makes things.. less harsh somehow. I don't like staying mad or hurt.. would rather just do something positive instead, and so. now I am.

He mentions my new SL endeavors.. I am really just picking up what I had delayed for a bit to serve elsewhere. It was well meaning, but the ..owner of the place has a very different style then I do, and while I stayed to be a. balance for the girls there.. in the end.. I preferred to go back to my own Gardens and run them in my own way. I know that some found him... very challenging.. and didn't understand what on earth I was doing there. Well, my position was such that I was in a place to protect the girls there, and I took it very seriously. So, even when things were difficult, I stayed.. until I felt I had a back up plan. And I did some serious contemplation before I decided to resign and move back to my own place.

I have been blessed in that some other friends have joined in, and now we have a new project that seems to be off to a good start. It's become a enjoyable place for myself, and other's. We've built a very beautiful housing platform for slaves that desire training and/or sanctuary. It's a grassy place with small mediterranean style two story houses (only 11 prims each amazingly) tree's with fluttering leaves, fountains benches and even a picnic area, campfire and gazebo. Below that a wonderful new sky garden for them with pools and fountains and torches.. and a Reiki table and meditation circle. The boys have their own houses on that level, while the girls are in their own above. I'll post some pics at some point when I feel its the right time. We are still fine tuning some things.

A new Castle, library and socializing area with dance floor as well. I learned to make a flexi prim this weekend so I could make a banner with the Garden's Logo on it. . it now flutters over the entryway to our admin building.

So yes.. I have been busy as usual. And all else has been well. Things run like clockwork with Paladin. A super special thanks to him for the wonderful treat of Thai dinner on Sat nite. My Knight and his sub had gone away for the weekend and so it was just me and the critters. And it was very yummy.. we love the same foods, and we plot our way through the menu. So many choices.. in the end we tried something well knows (red curry with beef) and something new.. glass noodles with shrimp. It was good, but I like Phad Thai better. *grins* So much thanks again to my dear Paladin.. Just to be fun, I had him rub himself while on his lunch break today, just a bit ago. Like to keep the boy on edge sometimes.

Next weekend I will be at Paladin's.. and it's supposed to rain! Our first weekend in our big new bed too! *big grins* I say again and again how grateful I am for him, and all the skills that he uses in service to Me. YUMMMY!

So, I wish all of our friends well, and if any wish to come visit the improved gardens in Second Life, just let me know!

Well wishes to all,

Mystress

Plans

Good evening all.

As always we hope our griends are doing well. Mystress has been on a SL buzz of late starting her own school and place of sanctuary. Mystress expressed how many folks had already joined her place and i cant but imagine its because Mystress is so wonderful. She had the ability to give one what they need yet in a manner thats so different from the traditional. Mystress is generating quiet the following because of this unique style and i wish Mystress the best. Enjoy the nibbling :)

This weekeend we got to enjoy an unplanned dinner together...mmm so yum sharing time with Mystress. We enjoyed a lovely Thai dinner and indulged in the chance for an unplanned excursion :) This coming weekend we have made plans to be together so i get to be in the company of my dear sweet Mystress all weekend...yum. We love our weekends together and cherish them so dearly.

Best of love to all our friends and may the approaching holiday season be a wonderful one for all.

Paladin